This has been a rollercoaster week, full of highs and lows both at work and at home.
Last week, my older brother, Jim would have been 50 years old. He has been dead now almost 26 years, I miss him still and always will. I think about what he would be doing, what he would look like as a 50 y/o. My shadow sibling, my parents' "shadow child", always close in our heart and thoughts.
This week was my dear Dad's 82nd birthday, he's still playing drums, studying the stars and the financial markets, and as he told me, "the same woman says she still loves me after 60 years". (Of course, She Does, Dad, she's No Dummy, and Who else would put up with her?? Now, Really.) So, well done, Dad, and yes, I agree, you have wonderful children and grandchildren.
This last past week at work, I've had three patients enroll in Hospice programs for their end stage disease. To put this in perspective, as a RN case manager working with the medically fragile for almost 9 years, I might have 3 patients enroll a year in Hospice. Ommph.
Some really happy stuff came my way in the form of the most gorgeous "crocus" purple cotton short sleeve sweater with beautiful hammered silver buttons made by dearest, artistic, prolific knitter, and hard working Business Analyst, among many other talents, Mrs.Spit!!!! I can't wait to wear it tomorrow when we go to a friend's home for Easter dinner. And Even Better Than This If You Can Imagine is that she is visiting our family next week for a long weekend. Can't Wait!
And if that wasn't enough, in between Mrs.Spit's visit to sunshine and salsa sauce soaked L.A., we are going up to Mammoth Mountain for a couple days skiing.
Thanks for sharing in this pass on the rollercoaster. My best to you and your loved ones this Easter and Passover.
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Normally I'd be after you to post a picture, but I guess I'll see it in, umm, 6 sleeps!
Can't wait!
Thinking of you and your brother, Jim, and your parents. It makes me sad to think of an empty place at the table all these years.
Have fun with Mrs Spit! And yes, a photo!
I third the request for a photo!
Birthdays and holidays are always the toughest when remembering our loved ones. Thinking of your Jim...
Happy Birthday to your dad! Have a great Easter and enjoy Mrs. Spit's visit!
A big Happy Birthday to your dad! My mother will be celebrating her 83rd later this month. Have a great time with Mrs Spit. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Easter :)
happy easter!
A very mixed post, indeed life is a rollercoaster. Enjoy your ski trip.
He's 82 and he still plays the drums! That is so great!
And the word "hospice" brings such a mixture of bittersweet feelings to me.
that is such a great testimony in your parents are in love for 60 years!! so sorry about your brother; I can imagine it must be hard as birthdays come along, especially one like 50 years old. Such a milestone. Happy 82nd birthday to your father!! Sounds like a wonderful man! Have fun skiing!
betty
that is such a great testimony in your parents are in love for 60 years!! so sorry about your brother; I can imagine it must be hard as birthdays come along, especially one like 50 years old. Such a milestone. Happy 82nd birthday to your father!! Sounds like a wonderful man! Have fun skiing!
betty
A happy birthday to your Dad!
Hope you had a beautiful holiday and here's hoping you have all ups this week.
Congrats to Dad!
Ooomph...I still don't know how you do it no matter how many enroll a year...
WHAT? There was a holiday function that you didn't have to HOST? SHOCKER!
yes.. def a rollercoaster.. though i am glad you are doing good..
so many things though to make you stop and wonder.. i'll be thinking of you!
Sounds like a roller coaster. I know how you feel. I think I'm in that place too. Just when I think everything is looking up, we have some things to make me look down. Congrats on your upcoming visit with Mrs Spit! Sounds awesome!
A tough week for you personally and professionally....
Excited for you about this girl trip you speak of!
Sending positive thoughts your way as you navigate the highs and lows... hopefully this week will go easier on you!
Happy belated birthday to you Dad! I relate to your feelings about your deceased brother ... mine died ten years ago and I miss him often. Sending positive vibes your way!
Hugs and blessings,
Oh I'm so sorry...what a rough time. I'll definitely keep you in my thoughts.
Life is such a roller coaster. I always threaten to complain to the manager about not letting me off when I pull the breaks and they don't work. Hang in there and hang on...
~melody~
My brother died in 2000. He would be 50 this year as well. My father died this date in 1985. All of our birthdays are this month: brother the 8th, me the 10th, dad the 12th. I'm the only one left.
I'm glad I stumbled on you.
I hope, by now, things have settled down. I am so sorry about your brother. I know that must be hard for you, at best. It's awful for those of us who didn't even know him.
I admire you for going on and finding humor and love in the everyday. Hope you had a happy Easter.
Deaths can sometimes come quickly, one after another. When I worked behavioral health, I had two suicides happen in rapid succession, and it was awful indeed. Oy!
I hope we get to see this lovely sweater soon!
Isn't that the way life seems to be? Filled with bittersweet pain and memories and then happiness as well. Just makes us appreciate what we have while we are here.
I LOVE the title of your blog!!! A sense of humor IS essential. Otherwise, life isn't, well, LIFE!
Lindsey Petersen
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