The first moment was a realization or “A-ha!!” Our family lives in a very pedestrian friendly neighborhood with shaded walkways or “paseos” where folks are out jogging or walking their dogs all times of the day and night. This includes yours truly walking our puppy, Charley. We see the “Regulars” on our walks, my neighbor with her King Charles spaniel, my friend with his French Mastiff (aka “Our Little Pony” at 180 lbs) and an older couple whose wife is wheelchair bound. I frequently see this older couple, a fit older gentleman pushing his wife in a wheelchair with their terrier trotting alongside them. The wife is frail and debilitated, but looks well cared for. I used to feel sorry for them, her at her physical plight, and he with the task of looking after her. Last week, our dogs stopped to socialize and we chatted. That brief exchange opened my eyes and heart that I was so, so wrong. This couple does not deserve my pity, but my appreciation and admiration for showing me this is what wedding vows look like in action. Also, caregivers not only give, but he too also receives much from his wife. Even though, my husband and I have been married for over fourteen years, I’m still learning everyday “on the job”.
The next perfect moment occurred when I opened a birthday gift from our niece. She is in her first year of college and also an excellent knitter, just like my Grandma Rose, her Great – Grandmother. I have never been lucky enough to get any of my niece’s handiwork, so I was thrilled to get these beautifully crafted socks in my favorite color for my birthday. It means so much to me, especially in light of how busy she is.
The last perfect moment I would like to share was when I heard our youngest son practice his piano. He is preparing for a recital and just got his music. When I heard him tentatively but most clearly start to play the opening notes of “Over the Rainbow”, my heart seized up. This song means so much to me and to hear him play gave me an immense feeling of appreciation and gratitude for my family and my life. His enjoyment, discipline, dedication to his art just all came crashing into my heart and spirit, that I could physically feel it.
Thank you for allowing me to share these small moments that touched me so deeply. I wish you the best today and everyday.
